“Love does not suffocate, love does not control”, motivated the chef
Chef Paola Carusella, 50, used her Instagram last Friday (11/25) to talk about violence against women and revealed that while she was not physically raped, she was actually raped in many other ways. ways.
She highlighted on social media the importance of the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women, and spoke about some common behaviors of a toxic relationship.
“Today is the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women. I was lucky that I was never physically abused, but I was abused in many other ways. I chose an image where I am happy, where I am, where I want and how I want! , specifically remind you of that and it reminds me of me too!”
Paula added: “If you are in a relationship with someone who controls you, constantly criticizes you, watches over you and constantly guesses that you didn’t ask him out on matters that only concern you. That, she added, uses motherhood as a tool of control, turning it into a prison and home care into a form of suffocation.”
Who “recommends” that you do or not do certain things, even without being asked, and who would be offended or upset if you made decisions on your own… If you’re in a relationship with someone who says they love you and care a lot and says the person who loves you most in the world, but you feel insecure and uncomfortable. If you suffer and do not feel free… ”, she continued.
“So it’s time to talk to someone, to ask for help, to talk to friends, to look closely at this relationship and at this person. To look closely and understand what’s wrong, to seek change. It’s not easy, but it’s It is the only path to the security and independence that we all deserve,’ he defended.
“Love doesn’t suffocate, love doesn’t control, love doesn’t make you insecure. Quite the contrary. There are many forms of violence. Some leave marks on the skin, others are invisible to the eye. Today I decided to talk about one. in these ways. Everything is very dangerous. Let’s go together. And let’s not forget! All! All! CIS and trans women! All together for the same right to exist free and free from violence. Let’s help each other! Always!”.
